All I can say is that, hard as it may be, you’ve got to put your foot down. I would either retaliate with what you know and believe, or tell them that you’re tired of hearing them come to you about me; that nothing good is going to come from it. What’s their goal, anyway? 🤷🏻♀️ I feel for YOU; it’s not about me. I imagine it’s exhausting having me consistently brought up at all, let alone in a negative light.